If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.
She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.
But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.
A lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending.
In psychology, they call this a “self-fulfilling prophecy”.
Put your focus on really liking yourself and believing that the types of guys you like also like you…
well, that usually leads to them actually liking you!
If you’re going to read it, keep in mind that is way more important than what you do.
So make sure you let the first part of what I said sink in.
During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.