Obviously, many things have shifted in our culture and the practice of dating is definitely one of them.It’s time for Christians to resurrect the idea of courting and redefine what godly relationships should look like. God instructs us to “.be yoked together with unbelievers..” (2 Corinthians , NIV).No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.Young guys have a stronger sex drive and are naturally hungrier for a woman’s body.These activities will help us to not only grow closer with God, but closer to one another as well. Discovering the answers to these questions will give us a glimpse into the fascinating way God has uniquely crafted them, rather than looking at superficial outward appearances alone. Unfortunately, many people in the dating scene today withhold their emotions for a variety of reasons.Considering the variety of ways to think of courtship, a second major component is mental. Some don’t want to be hurt again because of previous negative experiences. I kissed dating goodbye and i am looking forward to courting my life partner.Also, when sex is acceptable, many men use women merely for physical gratification, leaving both partners feeling empty and unsatisfied. Therefore, we must develop a “no sex” policy with the special someone we are courting and commit to spending time with them in public to avoid sexual temptation and to keep our relationship moving in the right direction. The painful truth is that some of our modern day Churches don't even consider the topic important...
As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other – something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control.
And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.
That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.
Often, these courtships led to successful marriages that lasted lifelong.
Fast forward to today’s dating scene and we see surface-level connections, one night stands, and high divorce rates.